Feeling Blue.

Monday, 28 April 2008

I've not been feeling very inspired the last few days and not just because I've been feeling poorly.

My poor mum is really ill again. She has taken a real downturn the last few days and, I hate to say it, she looks like an old lady. My dad phoned me in tears this morning as he just doesn't know what else to do. The home support team from the local psychiatric hospital don't seem to what to know anymore. They say they've done their bit and want to sign her off. She's just as bad as she was when they first started. They've messed around with her medication which gave her problems with her heart problems (she was getting extra beats) and not a lot else.

When my dad rang them today, they kept saying that they would ring back but didn't and when they did finally call, all they did was speak to my mum for 15 mins and said they would pop round on Thursday. I'm sorry, but that's just not good enough. She needs to bee seen now. Our surgery can't get involved either as she is still being "treated" by the hospital.

She's not eating much, hardly drinking, not really sleeping and she's lost so much weight. She's so exhausted she doesn't have the strength to do a lot and quite often her legs go from under her and she collapses.

It's breaking my heart to see her like this and even more so to hear my dad so distraught. I really feel for her state of mind and well being. I'm really scared that she won't get back to the way she was. I wish I could turn the clocks back 7 months to my wedding day and have my mum back again because I miss her so much.

I'm sorry this is such a long post.

xx

19 comments:

  1. Han said...:

    Oh Sarah I am sorry you are feeling so down about your mum and your dad. It sounds like the hospital are not being much help. Hang in there sending you a hug xx

  1. Julia said...:

    Big (((hugs))) to you and your family Sarah. I really hope your Mum gets the help and support she needs during this hard time. Don't appologise for leaving long posts, I'm sure it's good for you to get it off your chest and tell us all. xx

  1. Suzanne said...:

    You must make you posts as long as you like if it helps you after all thats what we are here for to listen.. just wish I could make things better for you and your family. Great big hugs Sue :o)

  1. Anonymous said...:

    If you need anything please say. You know we (your fans) are willing to help in any way we can. I bet every mum in the world wishes they had such a desent, caring daughter like you. And a supporting family. If you need a break from the pressure you know where i am. Bilbo say's Meeeewooww chiiirp mew, which! i think means she is happy to cover you in fur if that helps. It's that or use my owner as a human punch bag if you feel stressed?
    Take care and my thoughts are with you all.
    Onyxsoulclaw.

  1. NattyK said...:

    I am so sorry to hear your mum is not getting any better. It doesn't sound like you and your dad are getting much help either which is scandalous. Just hang in there for your mum. x x x

  1. Anonymous said...:

    Oh Sarah, I'm so sorry you aren't getting the help for the mum (and dad too for that matter). I wish we could all do something "real" to help you but please know that if hearfelt thoughts and prayers could help you it would all be better by now! Take care of yourself, you need to be strong for your parents. Lots of love, Denise in the UK
    denisemorgans@aol.com

  1. gina said...:

    I do hope it gets better for your Mum soon, I know it can not be easy for you or your family at the moment but you have to try and keep positive even though it seems so dark at the moment, Take care of yourself, and if it helps you to post then post away xxx
    Gina xx

  1. wendy said...:

    Sarah...sending your parents big hugs....take care!

  1. Debbie said...:

    Sarah (sending you a really big hug) you have to hang in there and be strong as much as you feel like you can't ... have you tried a support group they have info lines that you can phone and I wondered if you had given those a go to help you get some further advice and just voice your concerns to someone who really knows and is dedicated to depression .. sometimes medication isn't the answer ... I can give you one charity that I used with my mum and that was called Mind and there info helpline number is Infoline
    0845 766 0163 .. if anything just give them a call or search for other support/help groups that may offer your mum something other than an unhelpful hospital and medication that probably isn't doing her much good if they can't get it right ... I hope things get back to normal for you soon and for your dad and your mum .. my heart goes out to you as it never easier to see the people we love suffer and hurt so much ... Debbie x

  1. Vicki said...:

    ooooohhhh Sarah, I really feel for you and your family. Please dont ever apologise for long posts, I think we all wish we could do something to help you out, as long as you keep posting, we can try out best to comfort you. Lots of love 'n' hugs coming your way, take care xx vicki xx

  1. Vicki said...:

    oooohhh Sarah, I really do feel for you at the moment. Please do not apologise for a long post, I think we all wish we could take the pain away. As long as you keep posting we can try our best to comfort you. Sending you lots of love 'n' hugs, take care I really hope things get better quickly for you all xx vicki xx

  1. Arrr babe i am so sorry to hear about your mum being poorly xxxxx sending you big hugs xxxxxx we are all here for you hun xxxxDawnxx

  1. Noleen said...:

    Gosh Sarah, im sorry to hear you all having such a hard time, its awful having to watch someone you love most in the world hurt so bad... Just you keep posting about your feelings it will keep you strong. Best wishes to your mum and dad.. Noleen xx

  1. jami said...:

    Big hug. Keep us informed.

  1. Jill said...:

    Hi Sarah,
    So sorry to hear about your mum, hang in there hope your mam and dad get the help they need, sending your a big hug Jill x

  1. elisa said...:

    Sorry to hear about your mum.I hope things start to get better for you all very soon.x

  1. Rachel said...:

    I am so sorry to hear this. Don't apologize for venting or for the length of the post. We are here for you, sweetie! Hugs to you... Rachel SBS-12

  1. Michelle said...:

    I am so sorry to hear you are going through a horrible time again sarah, best wishes to you, Jon, your dad and mum. I am sorry i can't anything but I am always here if you want to talk. BIG hugs xx

  1. i'm sorry about your mom.

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