Struggling with new cat

Those of you that are regulars will know that 6 months ago we lost our beloved cat, Bozzy.  He meant the whole world to me, even though I only knew him the latter years of his life.

On Tuesday we adopted a new cat, Bobby, from the RSPCA.  He's a 14 month old tabby cat.  The thing is, I'm struggling.  I keep crying and wanting Bozzy.  I feel in complete inner turmoil, I go to bed feeling sickly and wake up exactly the same.  I play with him and interact with him but I'm detached from emotions and feel empty, nothing.

People keep telling me it's normal and takes time, but I'm starting to wonder if I'll ever be ready to accept another cat into my life and home.

I know Bobby has done nothing wrong, he's a sweet enough thing, but I don't know what to do.

I don't want to be like this and I'm scared.

Please can anyone help me?

Items for Sale

Good evening everyone, I hope you're all well.

I know that I've been absent for a while but I've been taking a bit of a break as well a making favour boxes and table plans for my sister's wedding which took place on Saturday.  We had an amazing day and my sister looked stunning.  I've attached a couple of photos for you to see.

I'm having a bit of a crafty clear out at the moment and I've some items for sale in a Facebook group and my album can be found here https://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref=home#!/media/set/?set=oa.404654862906286&type=1   Some items have been sold but there are still plenty of bargains to be had.  I am also looking at selling my Big Shot and Cricut too if anyone is interested.  These aren't in the album yet. 

Hope you're all well.  I'm back at work full time tomorrow fo the first time.  I'm looking to get some blog hopping time soon.